Stop Undermining Your Kids – Let God Use Them
As parents, we have many expectations for each other and society at large, making it easy for us to unintentionally sabotage our kids’ future selves! In doing so, we often get stuck in small patterns of control that disrupt the growth and development of these tender souls. But what if we stepped back and let God work through our kids instead? By spreading hope, this blog encourages parents to help their children identify and cultivate their callings—the gifts that the Lord places within each of us. By creating a safe environment grounded in trust and divine purpose, we can transform our children into the extraordinary beings they are meant to be. Please join us in exploring meaningful ways to be better and more holistic parents that nurture our children.
We often struggle with balancing our desire to protect our children and allowing them to grow in their faith. However, by undermining our kids’ potential, we may inadvertently hinder God’s plan for their lives. This article explores how we can step back and let God use our children for His glory.
The Power of Young Faith
Children possess a unique ability to connect with God. Their innocence and openness often allow them to experience faith in ways that adults struggle to achieve. Jesus himself recognized this when He said, “Let the little children come to me and do not hinder them, for the kingdom of heaven belongs to such as these” – Matthew 19:14
- Children’s faith is pure and unencumbered by
- Kids often display unwavering trust in God’s
- Young believers can be powerful witnesses to their
The purity of a child’s faith is truly remarkable. Unlike adults, who may be weighed down by life experiences and skepticism, children approach their relationship with God with open hearts and minds. This unfiltered connection allows them to embrace spiritual truths more readily and deeply.
Consider the story of Samuel in the Bible in 1 Samuel 3. As a young boy, Samuel heard God’s voice and responded with simple obedience. His youthful faith allowed him to become a powerful prophet and leader in Israel. This illustrates how God can use children in mighty ways when their faith is nurtured and respected.
Common Ways We Undermine Our Kids’ Faith
As parents, our protective instincts can sometimes work against our children’s spiritual growth. Here are some ways we might be undermining our kids without realizing it:
- Overprotecting them from challenges
- Dismissing their spiritual experiences
- Limiting their opportunities to serve
- Failing to nurture their unique gifts
Recognizing God’s Plan for Your Child
Every child is fearfully and wonderfully made, with a specific purpose in God’s kingdom. As parents, our role is to help our children discover and fulfill that purpose.
- Pray for discernment to recognize your child’s spiritual
- Encourage exploration of different ministries and service opportunities
- Listen to your child’s dreams and aspirations without
“For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans for welfare and not for evil, to give you a future and hope.” – Jeremiah 29:11
Nurturing Your Child’s Spiritual Growth
To allow God to use our children, we must create an environment that fosters spiritual growth. Here are some practical steps:
- Encourage daily Bible reading: Help your child develop a habit of engaging with God’s Word.
- Pray together: Make family prayer time a priority and teach your children to pray
- Model faith in action: Let your children see you living out your faith in everyday
- Provide service opportunities: Involve your kids in age-appropriate ministry
- Celebrate spiritual milestones: Acknowledge and rejoice in your child’s spiritual growth and achievements.
“Train up a child in the way he should go; even when he is old, he will not depart from it.” – Proverbs 22:6
Overcoming Fear and Doubt
As parents, it is natural to worry about our children’s safety and well-being. However, we must learn to trust God’s plan for their lives.
- Remember that God loves your children even more than you
- Pray for courage to let go and allow your kids to step out in
- Share stories of how God has protected and guided you in your own
“Cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you.” – 1 Peter 5:7
Empowering Kids to Be Spiritual Leaders
Children have the potential to be powerful spiritual leaders among their peers. By empowering them, we can help spread God’s love to a new generation.
- Encourage your kids to share their faith with
- Support their involvement in youth ministry and church
- Help them develop leadership skills through mentoring and
“Let no one look down on you because you are young, but set an example for the believers in speech, in conduct, in love, in faith, and in purity.” – 1 Timothy 4:12
Balancing Protection and Freedom
While it is important to let God use our children, we must also provide appropriate guidance and protection. Finding the right balance is key.
- Set clear boundaries while allowing room for growth and
- Teach discernment skills to help your children make wise
- Be available to offer support and advice when
“Now the Lord is the Spirit, and where the Spirit of the Lord is, there is freedom.” – 2 Corinthians 3:17
The Impact of Letting God Use Your Kids
When we step back and allow God to work through our children, amazing things can happen. Not only do our kids grow in their faith, but they can also have a profound impact on those around them.
- Children’s ministries often thrive under young
- Peers are more likely to listen to and be influenced by other
- Families and communities can be transformed through the faith of a
“And a child will lead them.” – Isaiah 11:6
Conclusion
As Christian parents, our ultimate goal should be to raise children who love and serve God wholeheartedly. By stepping back and allowing God to use our kids, we open the door for incredible spiritual growth and impact. Let us commit to nurturing our children’s faith, recognizing their unique gifts, and empowering them to be the spiritual leaders God has called them to be.
Are you ready to stop undermining your kids and let God use them? Start today by having an open conversation with your child about their spiritual journey and how you can support them. Remember, God has amazing plans for your children – trust Him and watch as He works through them in ways you never imagined possible.
“I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.” – Philippians 4:13
Start today by having an open conversation with your child about their faith journey. Share your story of how God has worked through your kids in the comments below and inspire other parents to step back and let God use their children too!
